My goal for my Routine spoke. In my last posting I announced the goal for my Professional spoke – one of three spokes I found I had to try and balance with my other 7 spokes (Routine, Love, Family, Personal, Self-Development, Wellness and Social). Today’s blog deals with my Routine spoke – which concerns time management, money, necessary documents, home management, housework, shopping, cleaning, laundry etc.  When setting goals for yourself it’s important to align them with your interests, attitudes and values – your true purpose and priorities – and to bring you – on the road map of life – closer to your final destination. In my coaching practice I offer my assessment Managing for Success – Personal Interests, Attitudes and Values – an assessment I obviously took myself 🙂

When setting goals for the three spokes I’m working on and to  get them more in line (balanced) with the other 5 spokes of the Wheel of Life, I rely on my Personal Interests, Attitudes and Values assessment result to find goals that are in line with who I am and what makes me “take action”.

So for example in my Professional  life (or “spoke”) my ideal environment, based on my personal strengths and preferences, is one where I get assignments with a high degree of people contacts, with a minimum of conflict between people but in a stable and somewhat predictable environment in which I may deal with people on a personal, intimate basis, with a democratic supervisor with whom I can associate and where I may thrive with freedom from control and detail.

When taking a thorough look at how to balance my Routine spoke I looked back at my SWOT (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats) analysis and found that my strength is that I’m stable and persistent, but with a potential weakness of being relaxed and content with things the way they are. I’m good at analyzing situations that can be felt, touched, seen, heard, personally observed or experienced. My motto is “facts are facts”. I often think over major decisions before acting. I am sensitive to the feelings of others and able to display real empathy for those who are experiencing difficulties. I prefer to plan my work and work my plan.

Furthermore I found that I sometimes want to avoid problems, rather than face them and solve them. I’m also sometime too quick to offer my friendship and help to others who needs me and my time…So the first thing I needed to do to better balance my Routine spoke was to make sure I stopped avoiding problems and started to face them, plan and solve them as part of my new routine making sure they were not put on a back burner but rather addressed as part of my routine. my time management. I also needed to start saying no…and stop being distracted by, or making an excuse for not getting things done in a timely manner, because I helped others who needed me and my time…

My Routine will now be more in line with who I am; better managing my money, personal and professional time, by being aware of the distractions “luring” me away from my goal to get things done – in other words to better balancing my Routine.

 

Stay tuned for more information and for my Self-Development  goal to better balance my eight Wheel of Life “spokes” going into 2014 and beyond. 🙂

Life doesn’t have to be something that just “happens” to you. You have more of a say in your future than you might imagine. Of the ones I’ve coached, many, who feel they didn’t  wind up “where they wanted to be” had only the vaguest idea of where that place was. They were somehow without direction but admitted to have no focus to begin with. In other words, they were lost from the very beginning, because they didn’t have the life road map – never drew one, never took the time to write down the short-and long-term goals, their direction.

Lars: five years from now and the journey to get there starts now and it starts with me finding out a) what’s important to me about success [The Values Staircase™, a ThinkLars tool] and b) how “balanced” my wheel of life is [The Wheel of Life, a Meyer Resource Inc. trademark]. It’s about my values – the guidelines I’ll bring with me on my journey and the fuel I need to succeed. What is it I need to accomplish, to satisfy, and how do I find the most rewarding road on the road map of life? The more balanced my “wheels” are the smoother the ride, the faster I can travel (if I so choose to), or the more I’ll enjoy the ride! There are eight spokes on the wheel that, together, and if balanced, will make the wheel roll with fewer bumps and lessen the risk of “deflation”.

The eight spokes; 1. Professional, 2. Routine, 3. Love, 4. Family, 5. Personal, 6. Self-Development, 7.Wellness and 8. Social

Many people believe that having wealth and a prominent and respectable career is a surefire way to happiness and satisfaction. These types of people tend to adopt a HAVE-DO-BE attitude. The risk with this kind of thinking is that they rely on acquiring an external source or tangible material to attain satisfaction. They start by wanting to HAVE. What happens when the external source or material is gone? The the satisfaction is gone too.

The way to resolve this it to attain satisfaction that comes from within, which is demonstrated by the BE-DO-HAVE model. You must first BE who you really are, and then you DO the actions that are in line with your personality to HAVE satisfaction that emanates from the inside-out. The starting point here is to BE what you are, according to what you want and expect for yourself. That is why the first step to achieving true satisfaction and happiness in your job and career is for you to take a close look at your personality. From that point, you can determine the jobs and careers that are best suited to your personality, your strengths, talents and interests.

You need to look at each one of the eight spokes and how they are all graded/satisfied/taken care of at the present moment. I think you get the grasp of how the Wheel of Life exercise works. The more balanced the 8 spokes are,  the better prepared I am for the road ahead.

Lars: five years from now and the journey to get there is going to be a ride you don’t want to miss, so decide to follow me and my blog, pick up some key ideas for yourself along the way. And if you decide you need someone by your side who will focus entirely on you, and who will help and support you in getting what you really want, to define, set, and track your own goals – then I’ll be your Coach throughout your journey. Feel free to send me your comments (using the form below) but make sure you sign up and follow me over the next five years!! This is going to be one heck of a journey and you will have front row seats to my life-planning book that I write myself – Lars: five years from now. Actually, it’s so much more than planning. It’s about finding out more about me, self-discovery, getting to know and trust the only person who is responsible for my own happiness. And you will all have front row seats to My Journey! I’m hoping to inspire you to set sail on your own journey and if so, I’ll be there to help, support and track your progress.

Curious?  Get in touch with me for your own, no-cost, initial consultation. I promise you it will take no more than 15 minutes of your time and you will leave with a better understanding of what is important to you, what you value and what the key checkpoints on your journey will be! 🙂

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